Don’t give up! There are lessons to be learned from a failed relationship that will propel you forward with greater knowledge and wisdom.
A failed relationship does not always imply a failure. You may not have ended up together, but that doesn’t mean you didn’t get a lot out of it. There is always something to be learned from a failed relationship.
Similarly to the end of a job, it got you to where you are today regardless of how it ended. When you’re going through a breakup, it’s easy to feel like the entire relationship was a waste of time.
It’s easy to feel as if you squandered your time on something pointless. However, once the initial shock wears off, you realize that a failed relationship can teach you a lot.
A failed relationship is not the same as a failure.
When a relationship ends, it can be difficult to remember the good times. It can be difficult to appreciate every aspect of what you went through.
Your emotions are overwhelmed by the pain. But, in most cases, what appears to be a failure at the time turns out to be a huge success.
Before my current relationship, I had two major breakups. They both felt brutal. Simply put, I was heartbroken.
I thought I’d never be able to move on. But, with the benefit of hindsight, I know that if it hadn’t been for those relationships, particularly the failed ones, I wouldn’t be where I am or with whom I am now.
Those failed relationships, no matter how much pain they caused at the time, led me to where I am now. That pain, those betrayals, and the perspective I gained from those failed relationships taught me patience, confidence, and trust.
It didn’t feel that way at the time, but what you learn from a failed relationship is usually after the fact.
What can you learn from a failed relationship?
Things you can learn from a failed relationship aren’t always obvious. They do not smack you in the face. They develop over time and with experience. They also come with a journey.
And the lessons you learn from a failed relationship aren’t limited to that person. They are all about you and what you want and need. They are concerned with what you are entitled to.
Failed relationships not only teach you a lot about the past, but they also point you in the right direction in the future.
So, what can you take away from a failed relationship? The answer is infinite, but here are some common ones you may encounter.
1This was Necessary.
A relationship requires both parties to participate. For it to work, both people must be committed. Whether you initiated the breakup or not, you realize it was for the best after the shock wears off.
A one-sided relationship is a dissatisfying relationship. A failed relationship with learned lessons is preferable to a forced relationship.